Small things you need to know if your partner truly loves you

There is no guaranteed way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are a few signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together.Though love may mean something different to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you, just has a crush on you or just being momentarily infatuated with you.

1. Notice how the person act.
See if the person can truly be him or herself around you. If you find yourself seeing a whole different side that the person doesn't show the public, then that may be love. For example, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a silly side when you're alone, then she/he is really loves you. If the person shares his or her deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that is love.

See if the person is happy to be around you  even during a bad day. If your loved one has had a very bad day but lights up when she/he sees you, then that's a sign of love. If she/he is in love with you, then the sight of you or the sound of your voice is guaranteed to make him or her feel better. The next time she/he has a bad day, see how she/he reacts in your presence.

See if the person gives you googly eyes. Though this may be silly, check out your loved one's face the next time you see him or her. Does she/he look at you in a adorable way, that means she/he loves you. You won't get this look all the time you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table. You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.

See if the person is upset when you are upset. If you are suffering unbelievable emotional pain, then this should rub off on the person who loves you.If she/he truly loves you, then she/he'll absorb some of your negative emotions and will be very upset because she/he'll want you to feel better as soon as you can. Though she/he doesn't have to be as upset as you are, the person should clearly be affected by your mood because all she/he wants is for you to be happy.

2. Notice What The Person Says
See if the person talks about your future together like it's a given. If the person really loves you, then the idea of you being in his or her future is an absolute given, not something that he or she would ever have uncertainty about. If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, then he is probably in love with you.True commitment means seeing a forever with another person. If the person talks about the future and always includes you in it, then there is a good chance she/he truly loves you. If the person talks about what your kids will look like, where you will retire together, or where you will go for your honeymoon, then she/he may really love you.

See if the person gives you meaningful compliments. There's a difference between saying, "I like your new haircut" and "You have the ability to make me feel better no matter what."If the person gives you compliments that show that she/he really appreciates the important aspects of your character and personality, then there's a good chance she/he really loves you.Your loved one doesn't have to shower you with compliments all the time it's the quality, not the quantity, that makes a difference.

See if the person says "I love you" and means it. Remember that there is a big difference between "Love ya!" and "I love you."If your special someone really loves you and tells you this much while looking into your eyes, sounding earnest, and not wanting anything from you, then it's likely that she/he really means it.If the person undeniably loves you, then she/he will say it for no reason at all, not just because she/he needs a favor or because it feels like the right thing to say.

Notice if your loved one tells you how much she/he misses you when you are apart. If you and your loved one are apart, but she/he still texts you, calls you, or emails you to let you know how much she/he misses you, then it means she/he can't imagine his or her life without you.
If you go on a three-week vacation and don't hear a word from him or her, then it may not be love.
She/he doesn't have to call you constantly to let you know if she/he misses you.

3. Notice what the person does
See if the person will listen to anything you say. 
If the person really loves you, then she/he'll not only open up to you, but she/he'll also listen to anything you have to say even if she/he's heard it all before. Though she/he won't be your lapdog, she/he will be around to hear your thoughts. She/he will nod and respond thoughtfully and not interrupt instead of switching the subject to something she/he wants to talk about.Part of being in love is just being able to listen. It's not all about being able to talk.

See if the person does nice things for you. If the person truly loves you, then she/he'll do thoughtful things like help you with chores when you're busy, or help you when you're sick. These favors don't have to be constant or over-the-top, but if the person truly loves you, then she/he'll want to do things to make you smile and to make your life easier. True love isn't just about what you can take from the person, but what you can give as well. If the person really loves you, then she/he will do nice things for you without you having to ask. If you have to ask for something nice every time, then that may not be true love.

See if the person always wants to be around you.
 Part of being in love is always wanting to be around the person you love, even if it's impractical.
If the person truly loves you, then he or she will want to be around you a lot.
This doesn't mean the person will want to be attached at the hip, but it does mean that the person will try to take as many opportunities as possible to see you.

See if the person truly understands you. True love is true understanding. If the person actually understands your moods, knows what you want and what you don't want, and has an idea of what will make you happy before you may know it yourself, then that may be true love. It's okay if part of you remains mysterious to the person you don't have to be understood 100%, but you do have to have the sense that the other person truly understands where you're coming from most of the time.

See if the person wants the best for you, even if it isn't the best for him or her. 
If a person truly loves you, then she/he will understand that there are some things that you have to do that may not be the best for him or her. If she/he truly loves you, then she/he will understand that you have to spend some time apart to pursue your career or dream. If the person only wants what's best for both of you at all times, then she/he will understand.

See if she/he truly supports you. If she/he really loves you, then she/he will not only be there for the fun times she/he'll also be there to help you achieve your goals and move forward in your life. . And she/he'll be there whenever you want to talk about something that means a lot to you.
If she/he really loves you, then she/he will support you to achieve your goals or pursue your interests, even if they have nothing to do with him or her.